Play skills

From the section: Supporting your child's development

Play skills

Play is the best and most effective way to teach your child any new skill. 

Join your child in their play; let them lead and guide the play. Take time to watch your child’s playso that you can learn what they enjoy. You can then copy their play as a way of showing your child that you are interested in what they are doing and want to be involved.

As an adultwe can often find playing embarrassing or uncomfortable, but we are simply out of practice. Keep at it - your child is not judging you.

Top tips on developing play skills

Encourage exploration and curiosity

Allow your child to explore their environment in a safe way. Simple activities like investigating textures, shapes, or different objects help them develop problem-solving skills and curiosity.

Use everyday moments as learning opportunities

Engage your child in daily routines like cooking, cleaning, or shopping. Counting objects, naming colours, or discussing what you're doing helps them build mental links with real-world settings.

Use cause-and-effect toys

Toys that create reactions, like pop-up toys or musical instruments, are excellent for developing play skills. They help children understand that their actions lead to results, building early problem-solving and focus.

Provide open-ended play materials

Offer toys that encourage imagination and problem-solving, such as blocks, stacking toys, or pretend play sets. These toys allow children to experiment and develop critical thinking skills.

Encourage problem-solving through questions

Ask open-ended questions to encourage your child to think critically. For instance, if they are trying to fit a puzzle piece, ask, "Where do you think this piece might go?" rather than giving them the answer.

Use repetition for learning

Repeating activities or stories reinforces learning. If your child enjoys a particular story, reading it lots of times helps them:

  • remember information
  • recognise patterns
  • understand sequences.

Create sorting and matching games

Sorting activities, like grouping toys by colour or size, help build organising skills. You can also create matching games with objects or pictures to encourage memory and logical organization.

Incorporate sensory play

Sensory activities like playing with sand, water, or dough stimulate brain development by allowing children to explore different textures, enhancing their understanding of the world.

Demonstrate play skills

Show your child how to play with toys by modelling actions like rolling a car, stacking blocks, or feeding a doll. Many young children, especially those with additional needs, enjoy seeing how to play.

Celebrate small achievements

Acknowledge your child's efforts and progress in learning. Praise encourages them to stick with it and builds their confidence, helping them face and attempt challenges.

Top tips on developing play skills (document)